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The Big Black Book of Dating in a dark cover beside its light companion workbook, both by Nadra Tylise
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The Big Black Book of Dating

+ Companion Workbook, by Nadra Tylise

A psychologically grounded guide to why we choose who we choose, and how healing changes attraction.

This is more than a dating book.

It is an invitation to look honestly at your patterns, and at how healing changes who you are drawn to.

Written by a licensed clinical social worker through the SWYNTS™ lens: say what you need to say, and mean what you need to mean.

An invitation to examine:

  • Your relationship patterns

  • The red flags you rationalize

  • The difference between chemistry and compatibility

  • The role of self-love in attraction

  • How healing changes who you choose

The companion workbook.

Designed to help you reflect, process and apply what you learn, so the insight does not stay on the page.

  1. Reflect

    Write through what comes up as you read.

  2. Process

    Make sense of your patterns, one page at a time.

  3. Apply

    Carry what you learn into your next choice.

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